The CBS story “Bullying: Words Can
Kill” is a very powerful documentary that details a large problem that plagues
students and schools across America. Bullying takes many forms and occurs in
many settings, and schools are noticing and intervening in these situations.
This essay will provide a summary of the video, discuss how the subject relates
to my future career as a public-school teacher, and provide an example of a
situation involving bullying that I witnessed in my work as a private music
teacher.
The video “Bullying: Words Can Kill”
can be summarized in one word: depressing. The stories and facts presented were
very sad. After noticing that the video was roughly 42 minutes long, I
wondered, how can there be so much to talk about? It only took a few minutes
for me to realize that 42 minutes would hardly be enough time to discuss the
many causes and effects of bullying.
The video began by explaining how every
school has a bullying problem. Bullying makes students feel afraid, left out,
and alone. At 5:00, we met Johnny, a student who was bullied because of his interests.
Rather than play sports like many other students his age, Johnny preferred to
make costumes. He said, “If you don’t play sports, you’re weird.” Because of
the bullying, Johnny started cutting himself and saying that he hated his life.
His mom said that she felt like she was dropping him off for war each day. After
school officials became involved, almost 70% of the students came forward about
being bullied.
In a similar situation, the
experiences of a student named Jessie were described. I was surprised to hear
that other students would tell her to “go drop dead” (9:26). In my schooling, I
never witnessed a student say that to another. Sadly, after going to a funeral
for someone who killed himself, Jessie went home and hung herself in her
closet.
At 20:00, the narrator mentioned how
kids are constantly bombarded with bully-type behaviors. A girl who was
harassed from first through seventh grade mentioned how students said so many
mean things that she started believing them. A parent being interviewed made a
strong point at 26:00, saying “the problems start outside of school, but
eventually trickle into the school.” At this point in the video, a panel of
students said that reporting bullying only brings on more problems. At 28:00, a
student mentioned how reporting bullies only made their actions worse.
The video ended with a discussion on
how to prevent bullying. Schools are getting involved in situations between
students, even if the events don’t take place on school property. The narrator
mentioned one mom who filed a $12 million-dollar lawsuit against a school and
group of students who bullied her daughter to death. Though many schools claim
to be making progress against bullying, many students disagree.
How does bullying relate to my
future career as a teacher? As mentioned in the video, schools are ground zero
for bullying. Teachers need to be vigilant and observant to stop possible situations
before they escalate. Though some students may be smart enough to walk away
from a bad situation, it doesn’t mean that the bad situation will go away. As
an orchestra teacher, my class will be primarily performance based. As I see
daily through my private lessons, some students fall behind. Making mistakes in
front of the class can lead to ridicule and bullying. After interviewing a
friend who teaches band, he said that a teacher must “flip the switch” and
“squash” any situation immediately. He also said that a situation between
students has the potential to escalate every minute that it goes unaddressed. I
know that these events need to be dealt with swiftly and immediately.
Finally, I would like to relate the
information in the video to my own work as a private music teacher. I see
students individually on a weekly basis. After hearing the stories of students
who were bullied at school, I immediately thought of a young student I taught
several years ago.
This
6th grade girl had many emotional issues. She would often cry during
lessons, one time throwing her violin across the room. I later learned that she
was having issues with another girl at the school. The two were having separate
counseling with a school administrator, but the effects of the situation were
taking a toll on her everyday life. Having no formal training on how to deal
with this, I calmly tried to shift her focus to the music. In retrospect, it
would have been better for me to contact a school official about the situation.
Private music teachers are not often required to be licensed to secure a
teaching position in a music store. This means that it is possible for private
music teachers to start a teaching position with no experience working with
children. I believe this girl was calling out for help, but my lack of training
left me feeling helpless and unsure of what to say to her. Being enrolled in
the education program at Trinity has shown me the full spectrum of student
issues a teacher must be attuned to.
In conclusion, the video Bullying Can Kill opened my eyes to the
difficulties students face at school. Some issues, such as hunger, learning
disabilities, or emotional needs have already been addressed by schools. I hope that schools will continue to actively
pursue positive ways to combat bullying. It is truly the biggest issue that
students face today. As technology continues to play an increasingly important
role in education, teachers must consider the implications of inviting their
students onto the internet for assignments. As educators, student safety must
be our priority.
Source
Bullying: Words Can Kill [Video file]. (2011, September 17).
Retrieved from http://www.cbsnews.com/videos/bullying-words-can-kill/